If you got screwed over in any of your past relationships, it is understandable to be guarded and proceed with caution. Just as the universe allows us additional chances, allow you and your partner to redefine what love means: Have Faith In Your New Significant Other If we want our new relationships to thrive, we must disallow ourselves from comparison in our love-life history as much as possible. While we should learn from our exes to enhance our new relationships, we should not compare one to another. We must stop trivializing our relationships in this comparative manner. Learning and comparing are two completely different things. It's especially easy to compare our past and present significant others if they have similar traits, which is common for people who claim to have a "type." It's like when television shows swap characters out for new actors and you can't help but compare how the newbie compares to the original. It makes sense: A role that was once held by one person has been recast. However, when said new relationship begins, we are inclined to start playing the comparison game. In fact, sometimes we want our next relationship to be with somebody who is the complete opposite of our most recent ex. We don't want to be with someone who evokes the parts of our exes that we dislike. When a relationship ends, we figure out what we do and do not want our next relationship to include.
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